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Flourishing in the Fire: Second Purpose of Suffering: Conforming/Reforming
Part 2 in this series: fire can conform metal to a shape or image, and it can also reform the metal. What does it mean for us to be conformed or reformed by the heat of suffering?
Flourishing in the Fire: Purpose of suffering in the fire: Testing
Suffering can be described as a “fire” or as a “fiery trial”. What lessons can we learn from what fire does to metal? One thing that fire does is to “test” it to reveal things otherwise hidden. What does testing reveal about us?
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